Back in the old days, when a host put on
black tie for an event, he expected that his guests would also show up
in tuxedos. These days, that’s no longer the prevailing etiquette.
But why shouldn’t it be?
There's no reason you have to be the
best-dressed man at the affair. You've already got the best woman at
the dance. And despite their grousing, most men don't mind getting the
tuxedo out of the guest-room closet and throwing it on for a really
classy party. Asking your guest to join you in wearing formal attire
will help you make your ceremony and reception a truly festive event.
By simply printing "Black Tie Invited" on
your reception cards, you'll be requesting that the men attending your
wedding wear tuxedos and that the women wear something equally
fabulous-- anything from a floor-length gown to a dressy cocktail suit
would be appropriate. Most of all, you'll help your guests feel like
they're important players in the celebration.
Not only will the day itself be more
exciting, but the photos of all your family and friends dressed their
best will make beautiful mementos to treasure forever.
Some of your guests may already own their tuxedos. Those that don't
can be directed to the formalwear shop where you've registered your
wedding party to ensure that they get special attention. A Black Tie
Invited wedding isn't for everybody, however. If many of your guests
don't own tuxedos, or will find it a financial burden to rent one,
don't make them uncomfortable by asking them to wear a tuxedo to your
affair. They'll look fine in a suit and tie.
TIP:
If you'll be attending a black-tie affair
while on your honeymoon (most cruises have one), ask us about a
"Cruise Package," which extends the rental period from three days to a
little over a week.
